Deliverance Minister: 10 Steps to Freedom From Soul Ties

by | May 26, 2022 | Spiritual Warfare

Soul ties are places we are connected to another person in the soul realm. It can create spiritual warfare and be places where we cannot seem to obtain freedom. Breaking soul ties could be the missing element to your deliverance.

One of the soul ties people don’t always identify is that of rejection, lust and control. If you feel these things are out of character for you or anything in which you are currently struggling is not like you, discern if a soul tie could be activating.

As the old adage goes, “We become who we hang around with.” That’s true in both the natural and spiritual. If you have never struggled with rejection and you notice an area of your life in which you are now feeling rejected, evaluate the relationships in your life and see if someone has a spirit of rejection. Relationships with people are where a soul tie can manifest, either good or bad.

Generational lines are additionally a place where we can inherit a soul tie. It is not always about breaking the generational curse, but in close family relationships we need to sever the soul tie. This does not mean coming out of relationship with a family member but breaking agreement with any unhealthy soul ties such as anger or irritability. If you are having a difficult time being set free from your mother’s control, then try severing a soul tie of control. It is a generational curse if you inherited it and are manifesting it, but it is a soul tie if your mother is still controlling you and you can’t break free.

Soul ties are not merely about sexual relations, but all relations. Soul ties can inflict us as we covet a person, idolize or begin to have lustful feelings toward them. They can enter through trauma, a controlling emotionally abusive relationship or a ministry relationship in which you were close but then fell into being controlled and victimized.

We can’t merely speak out, “All soul ties be gone in Jesus’ name.” We must do our part to break the agreement and renounce any known or unknown activity we have in our lives. Praying audibly to cancel the presence in the spiritual realm is effective.

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10 Steps to Freedom From Soul Ties

1. Recognize what it is. Ask the Holy Spirit for discernment on the root and core issue of your problem.

2. Responsibility: Take responsibility for what you recognize, what has been exposed, or what the Holy Spirit has convicted you of regarding this situation.

3. Repent for what you recognize. Repent for the responsibility, repent for idolizing, repent for being in a victimized relationship, repent for premarital sex or repent for idolizing a leader.

4. Remove: Remove objects from your life in correlation to this relationship. Remove—pictures, gifts, jewelry, clothes—ask the Holy Spirit to reveal them to you. Do a spiritual housecleaning. Get my free download at:

5. Renounce: The feelings or ties you see: Idolization, codependency, Jezebel, control and/or manipulation.

6. Refuse: Resist and refuse when it tries to come back. Cast down every imagination and high thing, cast down the thought (2 Cor. 10:3-5).

7. Rejoice: Praise God for your freedom.

8. Release: Extend the ministry of deliverance and find another captive to set free. Share this teaching, the free soul ties declarations and so on.

9. Receive: Receive the forgiveness and restoration Jesus wants to give you.

10. Respect: Respect others and set healthy boundaries.

Receive this prayer, powerful declarations and a free soul tie pdf. teaching at and release forgiveness to the people who have hurt you with my free mini e-course on Charisma titled “Forgiveness.”

Prayer of Repentance and Renunciation and Breaking Agreement (pray audibly)

I break agreement with every soul tie including soul ties from my generational bloodline. All curses and soul ties active in the spiritual and natural, I break and sever you in Jesus’ name and call you inactive. I bind, rebuke and cancel your curse on my health, emotions and bloodline. I speak and decree that I am redeemed from the curse and that no weapon formed against me will prosper. Every soul tie in the spiritual realm, I take authority over you now and call you null and void, totally canceled of every effect by the blood of the Lamb. I speak and decree that all known and unknown soul ties, curses and demons are evicted from me, and any associated demonic spirits are cast out and evicted now, in Jesus’ name! {eoa}

Kathy DeGraw is a prophetic deliverance minister. She is the founder of Kathy DeGraw Ministries and K Advancement LLC. Kathy hosts a podcast show called Prophetic Spiritual Warfare. She is the author of several books: Prophetic Spiritual Warfare, Speak Out, Discerning and Destroying the Works of Satan and Unshackled. Kathy’s training platform is available at Kathy has echurch based on her podcast that produced her most recent book every Sunday night at 6 p.m. EST; the web link can be obtained here. You can connect with Kathy on Facebook at or visit

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