When Trouble Offends You, Apply This Godly Principle to Find Peace

by | Aug 26, 2016 | Blogs, Straight Talk

Do you ever get offended when something bad happens in your life? I know I have. It’s an attitude that says, “Why is this happening?” or “This shouldn’t be happening to me!”

While it may seem harmless, offense is actually one of Satan’s greatest tools to rob us of God’s blessings. He uses offense to lure us into bitterness, resentment, hatred and unforgiveness—things that stunt our spiritual growth and make our lives miserable.

When difficulties come our way, they present opportunities for offense. They challenge our faith and what we believe about God. In fact, a lot of people use the trouble in their lives as an excuse to be mad at God or not believe in Him at all. In their minds, they can’t reconcile the idea of a loving Creator allowing such pain and suffering. 

Webster’s dictionary partially defines offense as “an act of stumbling.” I find this interesting because the enemy would love for us to get offended by the trials in our lives and stumble or fall away from our relationship with God.

If you’re like me, when things aren’t going well, you’re tempted to think, Why, God, why? But we’re not always going to be able to figure out why.

Sometimes other people’s decisions affect us negatively, or we make unwise decisions that hurt us. Our enemy, Satan, also works hard to come against us and prevent us from walking in God’s good plan.

Whatever the reason, it’s important to realize that suffering is not from God. The Lord originally created a world where everything was perfect, but when Adam and Eve sinned, it changed all of that (Genesis 3; Romans 2:12).

Thankfully, through Jesus Christ, God has restored us to Himself and we can receive all of His blessings (2 Corinthians 5:21). However, the Lord tells us that “in this world you will have trouble” (John 16:33 NIV).

So, what should we do when trials and tribulations come our way? The greatest thing we can possibly do is trust God because it’s the answer to every single problem we have!

There’s tremendous freedom in trusting God. When something’s not going our way, instead of getting offended, we can trust that He has a plan that’s better than ours and He will ultimately work out the situation for good (Rom. 8:28).

We need to understand this because sometimes when we’re having trouble, we can even get offended at other people who are being blessed. We can have a self-righteous attitude that says, “Well, I’m a better Christian than you are. I deserve those blessings.”

For example, maybe you want a promotion at work but someone else receives it instead. What should you do?

You can get offended, self-righteous and really hurt yourself spiritually. Or you can trust God and say, “Lord, if this is where You want me right now, then I’m going to serve my boss with a smile on my face. And I know if You want to put me somewhere else, You can do it in Your perfect timing.”

I’ve learned that God is smarter than we are! Sometimes He puts off giving us what we want because He has a different purpose in mind—something better than what we could have imagined. 

For instance, many times the Lord has allowed me to go through things the hard way. Sometimes it has been extremely difficult, especially when I watched other people receive breakthroughs in the same areas more quickly. 

But when God allows me to walk this path, He wants me to experience and understand what people are going through so I can relate to their pain and help them walk through it successfully.  

The Bible actually tells us that trials are good for us. James 1:2-3 (AMPC) says, “Consider it wholly joyful, my brethren, whenever you are enveloped in or encounter trials of any sort or fall into various temptations. Be assured and understand that the trial and proving of your faith bring out endurance and steadfastness and patience.”

Suffering doesn’t originate from God, but He will use it to help us grow up spiritually because He knows it will eventually bring out the best in us! (See Psalm 94:12-13.)

The Lord wants us to become stable and mature … to reach the point where we’re not blown over by every storm in life. He wants us to have joy and contentment in Him, even when our circumstances aren’t perfect (Neh. 8:10).

God never promised us a trouble-free life, but we can take comfort knowing that He loves us tremendously, He has His eye on us, and He is already working behind the scenes to help us (Rom. 8:38-39; Ps. 33:18).

Remember, what you’re going through now isn’t going to last forever. So don’t live your life bitter and resentful over something you can’t do anything about. Instead, choose to place your trust in God. He’s the One Who loves you unconditionally … and He’s the one who can turn your trials into something great. {eoa}


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