Whitney Houston and the Silent Shame of Addiction

by | Feb 15, 2012 | Blogs, Fire in My Bones

The pop diva’s death should remind us of an uncomfortable reality:
People in church take drugs.

Anyone who has listened to Whitney Houston’s rendition of “I Love the Lord”—or who saw her perform with CeCe Winans
and Shirley Caesar at the 1996 Grammy Awards—knows she had an incomparable
voice best suited for gospel music. But Whitney chose a broader path: When the
doors opened for her to make a pop album in the 1980s, it became the all-time
best-selling debut album by a female artist. She became America’s diva.

But all her worldly success didn’t help her overcome her personal
demons. Her stormy marriage was marred by domestic violence. She admitted in
the 1990s that she took cocaine every day. She tried rehab three times over the
course of eight years. Her voice was so damaged by her drug habit that people
walked out of her comeback concert in London in 2010. She became a pathetic
shell of her former self.

“Whitney Houston was not the
only person who talked about Jesus yet struggled privately with cocaine or
other illegal drugs. I frequently meet men and women at church altars who have
never found the strength to kick their habit.”

Christians in the music industry reached out to Whitney and prayed with
her during her up-and-down battle with addictions. But the drugs had a powerful
pull. In 2006, a photo was released of her bathroom sink in Atlanta filled with
crack pipes, drug paraphernalia, cigarettes and beer cans. Even after she
divorced Bobby Brown in 2007, the downward spiral continued.

It all ended last week when Whitney’s body was found in her hotel
bathtub in Los Angeles, just two days after she sang an impromptu version of
“Jesus Loves Me” at a Hollywood nightclub. I’d like to believe it was a feeble
cry to the God of her childhood.

The woman who knew Whitney Houston best—her mother, gospel singer Cissy
Houston—has been deeply concerned about her daughter’s choices for years.
During a 2009 interview with Oprah Winfrey, Whitney recalls her mother’s words:
“I am not losing you to the world. I’m not losing you to Satan. I want my
daughter back. I want to see the child I raised, and you weren’t raised like
this.”

Her mother knew that Whitney’s choices—and perhaps the enormous
temptations that come with worldwide fame—had taken her down a dangerous road.

I can’t judge Whitney, nor can I say whether or not she made it to
heaven. Only God knows her private conversations with Him. I hope that
somewhere underneath the tangled mess of her life she reached out to the Savior
she sang about as a child while growing up at New Hope
Baptist Church back in Newark, N.J.

What I can do is plead with Christians today to stop ignoring the
monster of addiction that is killing so many people, including those who may be
sitting next to you in church.

Let’s not kid ourselves. Whitney Houston was not the only person who
talked about Jesus yet struggled privately with illegal drugs. I frequently
meet men and women at church altars who have never found the strength to kick
their habit. I even know of pastors, youth leaders and worship leaders who live
double lives—hiding their addiction under the cloak of Sunday morning religion.
They hide because they’re afraid they’ll be shunned or shamed if they ever
admit their problem to anybody.

What we need is less judgment and more transparency about this problem.
Drugs, including alcohol, are harsh taskmasters. Crack and crystal
meth are impossible to overcome apart from serious intervention. Once a
person’s brain is altered by these substances, he or she needs a miracle.
Telling them to “Just say no” is not going to cut it.

But we can’t pretend people are OK when they are hooked on drugs. If
the addiction continues, they are likely to end up dead. I agree with Cissy
Houston that Satan was involved in Whitney’s sad journey. Hell is directly
connected to every crack deal ever made.

If you are addicted, please be willing to seek help by admitting your
problem to your pastor or a trusted Christian friend. If you have someone in
your family who is addicted, don’t wait until it’s too late to intervene. Barge
into their lives if necessary to show tough love. (And forward this article to
them.)

If you are a pastor, extend mercy. Talk about addiction from the pulpit
and make sure your congregation knows your church is a safe place to find
healing. Then, identify effective Christian drug rehab ministries in your area
and refer people there, especially if your church counseling team is not
equipped to tackle hard cases.

Remember:
Jesus has a message for anyone struggling with drugs: “Come to me, all who are
weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28, NASB).

Whitney Houston’s death was tragic, but perhaps the warning that
emerges from her story will end up saving lives.

J. LEE GRADY is the former
editor of
Charisma and the director
of
The Mordecai Project. You can follow him on
Twitter at leegrady.

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